{"id":12178,"date":"2025-06-20T13:52:34","date_gmt":"2025-06-20T17:52:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.danielharper.org\/yauu\/?p=12178"},"modified":"2026-01-02T17:52:00","modified_gmt":"2026-01-02T22:52:00","slug":"why-are-you-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.danielharper.org\/yauu\/2025\/06\/why-are-you-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Are You You?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I&#8217;ve got convention brain. What did I do after yesterday&#8217;s business meeting? What programming did I attend? With whom did I talk? It&#8217;s a bit of a blur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But I do know that last night I went to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.whyareyouyou.org\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">a screening of the documentary &#8220;Why Are You You?&#8221;<\/a> a new documentary about the now-defunct youth program Young Religious Unitarian Universalists, or YRUU. I was fairly heavily involved in YRUU as an adult advisor from 1995 through about 2003, serving as an advisor in local youth groups, as well as at district and continental &#8220;cons&#8221; or conventions. As a result, I got to meet youth leaders and youth advisors across the continent, from Alaska to Maine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The filmmakers interviewed a number of former YRUU youth leaders, and I recognized several of them. I enjoyed hearing their memories of YRUU conferences and programs; I especially enjoyed hearing about how YRUU changed their lives. Given all those hours I spent supporting youth leaders and UU youth institutions, it&#8217;s nice to know that those hours weren&#8217;t wasted. But the ending of the movie is a little depressing. The Unitarian Universalist Association (UUA) ended funding for YRUU in (I think) 2007. There was no replacement for YRUU \u2014 YRUU was  a semi-independent organization with youth leadership, not just another department of the UUA.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not that YRUU was perfect. The documentary touches on some of its problems. What&#8217;s missing are the voices of all those teens for whom district and national YRUU programs held no interest, or those for whom YRUU did not feel safe \u2014 I knew quite a few of those teens, some of whom were devoted members of a local youth group. What&#8217;s also missing is mention of the adult advisors with poor boundaries \u2014 I saw a few too many of those; part of the reason I pulled away from district and national youth events was that I felt YRUU didn&#8217;t train adults adequately, nor hold them fully accountable. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yet these were all solvable problems. The solution was not to get rid of the national youth organization; the solution was to reform that organization. For the past twenty years, I&#8217;ve had the sense that Unitarian Universalism broadly construed, especially at the national level, just really doesn&#8217;t like children and teens. Children and teens are messy, they take up a lot of time and energy, and if you don&#8217;t like them that much, it&#8217;s easier to shut them out rather than support them and their families. I feel that the death of YRUU is part of this larger trend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>P.S.: If the issues raised by this film are of interest, you might also be interested in <a href=\"https:\/\/religionnews.com\/2019\/09\/13\/faith-like-a-child-an-interview-with-a-childist-biblical-scholar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">childist theology,<\/a> a new approach to Biblical interpretation that places children at the center of Biblical interpretation. So&#8230; What would it mean to place children and teens at the center of a Unitarian Universalist theology?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve got convention brain. What did I do after yesterday&#8217;s business meeting? What programming did I attend? With whom did I talk? It&#8217;s a bit of a blur. But I do know that last night I went to a screening of the documentary &#8220;Why Are You You?&#8221; a new documentary about the now-defunct youth program &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.danielharper.org\/yauu\/2025\/06\/why-are-you-you\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Why Are You You?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[53,44],"tags":[1195],"class_list":["post-12178","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-art-and-religion","category-youth-ministry","tag-childist-theology"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.danielharper.org\/yauu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12178","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.danielharper.org\/yauu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.danielharper.org\/yauu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.danielharper.org\/yauu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.danielharper.org\/yauu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12178"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.danielharper.org\/yauu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12178\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12201,"href":"https:\/\/www.danielharper.org\/yauu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12178\/revisions\/12201"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.danielharper.org\/yauu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12178"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.danielharper.org\/yauu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12178"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.danielharper.org\/yauu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12178"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}